Phone Sex Psychology

One in three men call phone sex lines, this used to be the alarming yet sweetly beautiful statistic that used to float around the industry back in the "good old days." Please do not ask me who or how they came up with this profound statistic however even if the odds were stacked lower and it was 1 in 10 men that call, well we would certainly have a lot of men making good use of their phones within the UK!

My point of this post is that just from experience I know that a lot of men call from all types of backgrounds who are of all ages and who all desire one thing and that is to be completely entertained on their phone by a seductive chat line operator who is able to engage within their fantasy in a professional yet sexy manner.

When I first started taking phone sex calls I certainly did not think about Phone Sex Psychology. Just to get through one shift was a blessing for me, however one day I did start to think about the industry as a whole and I wanted to understand what exactly made men call us. Obviously the "obvious" reasons had been ticked off but surely there must have been reasons that I had not even concluded with yet. Also I wanted to know if they actually believed what I was telling them? My phone sex character was obviously a slimmed down (minus 1 stone) version of myself but my character also exuded nymphomaniac qualities which in my real life I am afraid are just absent.

I can gladly tell you that after 20 solid years of phone sex calls that I've finally nailed Phone Sex Psychology on the head and not only has it increased my call duration's but it has helped me with training all of the new chat line operators that join our team.

Below are my Phone Sex Psychology tips that I hope will help all new and existing Chat line Operators working from home.

He does it because he is Lonely
The big L word has many negative aspects surrounding it. No one wants to feel that they have been left on the heap and that society is not concerned with them anymore. When loneliness creeps in most people want to banish that feeling as soon as possible and what better way to do that than to pick up the phone and speak to a sexy lady on the other end. Time and time again I've spoken to men who have just divorced or have left a long term relationship and their first words uttered are that they are doing nothing and wanted some company.

He does it because of his Fantasy
OK so he loves cucumbers inserted into his rectum or he wants to be dressed in stockings and suspenders whilst whipped in front of a mirror. Or he even loves the thought of giving another man oral sex. All of these things are pretty hard to bring up with his wife or long term partner let alone his new fancy piece who he has only known for 3 months. This is where the anonymous chat line operator comes into play. Suzie will tell him how she will get a massive 3 inch (width!) cucumber and shove it where the sun doesn't shine over and over again. They will even discuss which supermarket they will purchase the intended weapon. Suzie is a good chat line operator and will never judge John and his anal cucumber fetish.

He does it because he is Drunk
Yes Friday and Saturday nights are full of tipsy men calling us Chat Line girls and telling us how wonderfully "manly" they really are and that even a 2 o'clock bird wouldn't do for him because he is so good in bed. Drunk / Tipsy men are excellent callers, the calls are long, they normally do all of the talking and they can be quite amusing.

He does it because he is Young
Young lads (18+) have a habit of having enormous sex drives. Testosterone is pumping through their veins and sweating our of their pores and yet they sometimes lack the confidence to actually pull a bird. These callers can be testing because they are normally over and done with in 3 minutes which leaves you high and dry so to speak (in minutes terms here!) Normally they grow out of it once they have secured a relationship but can return upon relationship breakup.

He does it because it is his Hobby
I love these callers because they are my bread and butter. They love sex lines and call daily. We give them a perfect service and they are satisfied until they want their next "phone fix" and no we are not exploiting them, if they can afford the service and want to call well there is no problem. Hobby callers tend to suffer from one of the 5 reasons above.

So as you can see Phone Sex Psychology is something quite complex and many callers move between all 5 reasons throughout the years. It takes time and calls to categorize each caller but if I'm honest when you start doing this it helps your call duration's and gives the caller a much better experience. My final tip is that as a chat line or phone sex operator you need patience and understanding about men and their behavior in order to be successful. Without these skills you will miss out on key information and thus your entertainment period will be short! So put your "I love men" head on whilst taking calls and give each and every caller the very best phone sex service they could ever receive.

If you would like to join our team of chat line operators you can apply here.