Why do men call Phone Sex Lines?

Why do men call phone sex lines is an age old question that has been put to me time and time again and I wish that I had a definitive answer. Of the thousands of sex calls I've taken I do have my top 5 reasons and ones which you should probably take note if you are a new or existing chat line operator! Knowing why a man is calling you can really help you with your calls whilst also pleasing the man because you "get him!"

On another note being non judgemental is the key to having really great sex calls. We are entertainers on the phone and if we cross our personal likes/dislikes with a caller it can really affect your call durations and also upset the caller. It’s great to be non judgemental, adventurous and quite different from how you would act within your normal everyday life.  

OK so here is my top 5 reasons for why men call phone sex lines:

Loneliness: A lot of men, all ages, call because they feel lonely. Their wife may have died or they have just split up with their partner and they require some female attention. Companionship is a basic human need and I feel very happy once I have orally satisfied a caller who is feeling low because he is on his own. Many of these types of callers end up becoming repeat customers so give them enormous amounts of time and respect.  

A Weird Kink/Fetish: Lots of men with partners and who are single call because of this reason. They can't talk about a particular fetish to anyone else yet it is burning a hole within them. This is where the anonymous phone sex operator really comes into play. You see we don't mind talking about penetrating their bottoms with a strap on because they have been a naughty boy, whereby their wife might find this troubling! Never be judge mental with these types of callers otherwise you will lose the call.

The Horny Man: obvious right? Yes obvious but crucial knowledge for your calls. Tons of callers dial because they need that extra bit of stimulation from us to help them to unload. You normally hear porn playing in the background and he is already very excited. These calls tend to be shorter than most calls but can in fact be long calls if you really immerse yourself into their fantasy or even discuss the porn that they are watching. If you give this type of caller a good “wank” session they will probably call you back.

Shy Callers: There are thousands of men out there who are painfully shy in front of women and this is where the anonymous chat line operator comes into play again. Be gentle with these type of callers whilst also giving them a fantastic sex session. If they enjoy, they will call you time again as their confidence with you grows. These types of callers tend to dial into the service for months/years as they enjoy making a bond with you.

The Jokers: Oh how I love these types of callers and the calls are normally quite long. Being sarcastic on these calls is really your only option. For example, a tipsy man dials and calls you a slag. My response. "Yes I've been the biggest slag in my town since I was 18." Classic shut down, caller knows you don't get upset by his comments and he stays on the phone for more. My favourite put down from a caller? "You are nothing more than a fat slag." Now even though he has never seen me my response is priceless, "I'm so glad you know that I'm a fat slag, you now know that you will have to pick up my 2 tonne stomach so your tiny 3 inch cock can fit into my hole. My lovely, I've got fat hanging off every inch of my body and it was only yesterday that I got stuck in my fat chair." Response: utter silence. Yet he holds the call open waiting for my next shocking statement.

It's calls like that that really make me chuckle and I think that's why I love being a chat line operator so much because you can be whoever you want to be whilst also being highly entertaining on each phone sex call.

So to conclude there are lots of reasons why men call phone sex lines. Nearly all are genuine and as an operator we are here to help them, give them the best experience ever and make them to want more of us. It is always mutually beneficial as long as the caller is given a sex service that he will not forget tomorrow and that he is always treated with respect and friendliness. Why don’t you take notes on your calls and see if you can add any categories to my 5 above?

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