Why do men call phone sex lines is an age old question
that has been put to me time and time again and I wish that I had a definitive
answer. Of the thousands of sex calls I've taken I do have my top 5 reasons and
ones which you should probably take note if you are a new or existing chat line
operator! Knowing why a man is calling you can really help you with your calls
whilst also pleasing the man because you "get him!"
On another note being non judgemental is the key to
having really great sex calls. We are entertainers on the phone and if we cross
our personal likes/dislikes with a caller it can really affect your call
durations and also upset the caller. It’s great to be non judgemental, adventurous
and quite different from how you would act within your normal everyday life.
OK so here is my top 5 reasons for why men call phone sex
lines:
Loneliness: A lot of men, all ages, call because they
feel lonely. Their wife may have died or they have just split up with their
partner and they require some female attention. Companionship is a basic human
need and I feel very happy once I have orally satisfied a caller who is feeling
low because he is on his own. Many of these types of callers end up becoming
repeat customers so give them enormous amounts of time and respect.
A Weird Kink/Fetish: Lots of men with partners and who
are single call because of this reason. They can't talk about a particular
fetish to anyone else yet it is burning a hole within them. This is where the
anonymous phone sex operator really comes into play. You see we don't mind
talking about penetrating their bottoms with a strap on because they have been
a naughty boy, whereby their wife might find this troubling! Never be judge
mental with these types of callers otherwise you will lose the call.
The Horny Man: obvious right? Yes obvious but crucial
knowledge for your calls. Tons of callers dial because they need that extra bit
of stimulation from us to help them to unload. You normally hear porn playing
in the background and he is already very excited. These calls tend to be
shorter than most calls but can in fact be long calls if you really immerse
yourself into their fantasy or even discuss the porn that they are watching. If
you give this type of caller a good “wank” session they will probably call you
back.
Shy Callers: There are thousands of men out there who are
painfully shy in front of women and this is where the anonymous chat line
operator comes into play again. Be gentle with these type of callers whilst
also giving them a fantastic sex session. If they enjoy, they will call you
time again as their confidence with you grows. These types of callers tend to
dial into the service for months/years as they enjoy making a bond with you.
The Jokers: Oh how I love these types of callers and the
calls are normally quite long. Being sarcastic on these calls is really your
only option. For example, a tipsy man dials and calls you a slag. My response.
"Yes I've been the biggest slag in my town since I was 18." Classic
shut down, caller knows you don't get upset by his comments and he stays on the
phone for more. My favourite put down from a caller? "You are nothing more
than a fat slag." Now even though he has never seen me my response is
priceless, "I'm so glad you know that I'm a fat slag, you now know that
you will have to pick up my 2 tonne stomach so your tiny 3 inch cock can fit into
my hole. My lovely, I've got fat hanging off every inch of my body and it was
only yesterday that I got stuck in my fat chair." Response: utter silence.
Yet he holds the call open waiting for my next shocking statement.
It's calls like that that really make me chuckle and I
think that's why I love being a chat line operator so much because you can be
whoever you want to be whilst also being highly entertaining on each phone sex
call.
So to conclude there are lots of reasons why men call
phone sex lines. Nearly all are genuine and as an operator we are here to help
them, give them the best experience ever and make them to want more of us. It
is always mutually beneficial as long as the caller is given a sex service that
he will not forget tomorrow and that he is always treated with respect and
friendliness. Why don’t you take notes on your calls and see if you can add any
categories to my 5 above?
As always if you are ready to join our super busy team of
chat line operators, that great link is here.
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