5 Biggest Phone Sex Operator Mistakes

If you have ever taken phone sex calls then I guarantee that you have made one of my top 5 mistakes which can severely limit your call durations! As we know longer calls equate to more wonga so it is imperative that you squeeze every minute out of every call (of course whilst being totally immersed within the caller and still acting your sexy self!) Omitting these crucial mistakes from your phone sex calls can really improve your call durations, increase your confidence and even make the caller feel much happier with the service given!

OK so here goes:

You ask the caller if he has a wife/girlfriend. My friends unless the caller has specifically told you he has a wife/girlfriend (normally part of his fantasy) DO NOT ASK! It adds nothing to the call and in fact starts to make him feel guilty and this will eventually end in a hang-up. You are there to entertain the caller and you really have no place to ask him about personal life, it really is off putting! The same applies for children, do not ask him if he has any children unless he offers you this information!

You tell the caller that you are a size 20 when he wants a size 8. Yes ladies we all know that curves are sexy but when it comes to phone sex it is what is said that matters. If this caller tells you that he likes hot blondes, size 8 with small tits then you definitely do not tell him that you are a size 20, brunette with huge melons! It’s not what the caller is looking for and ultimately he may hang up the phone. Try to gauge what he likes and then miraculously turn into his favourite sweetheart! 

  
      If he lives in Scotland, don’t say you live in Portsmouth! The caller wants a connection with you if only briefly. He wants to feel that somehow and some way you two can actually meet up (believe me this is just fantasy play here) so when you tell him you live in Portsmouth and he lives at the other end of a different country - the connection will feel weak. Tell him that yes you do visit Scotland and that your best friend has just moved there and you often visit. You love the scenery and then quickly look up a Scottish town and tell him you go there every other month. You are looking for the suspense factor, keep it exciting for him.

You are very abrupt with the caller. Unless you are taking a domination call, abruptness should not be present in a normal sex call. If he wants an abrupt and moody woman he will either go to his wife or mother. He is paying to be entertained by you and yes that means you have to have a friendly persona that is alive and bubbly. So no abruptness should ever be present on a normal phone sex call....EVER!

You do not engage in his fantasy. The caller has chosen you because he likes the sound of you! Do not let him down by not having any imagination about his fantasy. He probably can’t talk about this to anyone else and you are the last resort so make sure you put some effort into it. If he loves to wear silk knickers then please without fail tell him about the hundreds of silk knickers you possess! Tell him about your amazing shopping trips to the large department stores and how you could spend hours gazing at all of the lingerie. Whatever you do don’t just say “That’s nice!” It’s not what he is looking for. Research, engage and entertain that man!!

There are other mistakes phone sex operators can make however I am not making the list above to make anyone feel anxious I am just informing operators that if you are doing the above mistakes ... STOP IT NOW! After you've taken a million calls your drive can decrease (no not sex drive!) your focus can be off and sometimes you end up saying the same thing over and over again. It’s always good to take some time and to visualize what you are saying and how it will make the caller feel. There are plenty of things you can do to change the outcome of your calls including their durations.

As always if you are an operator with LiveLines UK and you would like some further tips you can always call us and we will help. If you are thinking about taking that plunge and becoming a phone sex operator from home I would always research and check out this blog so you can become accustomed with sex chat before you start taking the calls. Any woman on the planet that can speak can become a phone sex operator, you can too! Apply here.