Opening a Phone Sex Call: Omitting Crucial Mistakes

It is imperative when opening a phone sex call that you do it correctly. The first 30 seconds are the most important and which determine if the caller is going to stay with you or go to a different operator. New phone sex operators tend to make the mistake of either going in too fast and furious or with not enough finesse... Both are crucial mistakes which can be avoided if you practice opening your calls correctly!

Entering a new call is like opening a new book, it should be exciting, tantalizing and yet sweetly reserved until you are thoroughly immersed in its content.

Below are my top 5 tips for opening a phone sex call ...

Never ask him how he is feeling: If you ask him how he is feeling then I guarantee that the response will be, "I'm feeling horny" and this then sets off a chain of events. There is no way you are going converse about his hobbies once he has said the “H” word. This is what I say, "thanks for calling, I'm Sarah, would you like to know a bit about me?" This then leaves you time to explain about your character in an interesting yet non sexual manner whilst also keeping him engaged with the call. 

Don't ask him what he looks like: He knows if he is 40, fat and bald and this is perhaps something that he doesn't want to share with you! I know that it is natural to ask a caller what he looks like however it can be slightly off putting for him and he may not appreciate your question. Really he is paying to listen to your character, he wants to know all about you and what you look like. He wants you to entertain him and keep him focused on the call. Perhaps when you are deep in conversation you can enquire as to how he looks but at the beginning of the call this is a definite no no.

Sound Alert & Happy: If you answer a call and you sound miserable or like you've just rolled out of bed then you are indicating to the caller that you are not really bothered about his call. Not only does this affect your calls but it really lets down the reputation of the service as a whole! We all have s*it days (I had a particularly painful morning this morning and all I really wanted to do was crawl back into bed, however being a mother and a full time worker my duties called!) and these days can get us down and make everything feel doubly harder to do. So when we are stressed and still working (bills have to be paid right?!) we need to pay special importance when opening a phone sex call, you need to sound like your ecstatically happy, whilst also really relaxed and ready for whatever the caller has to throw at you.

Background Noise: If you answer a chat line call and your three dogs are going bezerk in the background then this will sound slightly unprofessional to the caller and he may disconnect the call. Or maybe you've answered a call and your Music  or TV is amazingly loud in the background, this will definitely annoy the caller as he has to strain to hear you. Whenever you open a Phone Sex call you need a harmonious background, one that is very quite so the caller can concentrate on what you are saying.

He gets through to the wrong operator: Sometimes if the chat line operator he requires is not available then the service will put him through to the next available operator which may be you. If he asks for Sally for example please do not say, “Sorry you've got the wrong operator!” This is totally negative and he will more than likely hang up the phone. You could say, “ I'm sorry Sally is not available at the moment but I'm Sarah and you sound absolutely lovely.” The caller will likely respond to a compliment and even if the call is only 5 minutes long, it is 5 more minutes than you would have had!

As always practice makes perfect and if you've only just started to take sex chat calls you will know that is does take some to get used to. It normally takes new operators a full 3 weeks of taking calls before they can pinpoint their errors and rectify them. It’s like any job, you learn as you go. We are very lenient with new operators and we try to help them where we can however there are lots of resources that operators can view that may help them with their phone sex calls. You can view our main website www.phone-sex-jerk.co.uk (other websites are linked on there) and you will see exactly what the caller sees before he calls us operators.

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