Being a Phone Sex can be exhilarating but hiding it from others especially the people most important to you can be a right royal pain in the arse! This post does not address the "morals" of what you should / shouldn't do within a relationship, this is merely discussing the fact of what to do if your partner does not know if you are doing a sex chat job.
Firstly let me tell you that your partner will probably most likely find out. I have trained hundreds of operators and the ones that tell me that their other half doesn't know normally call me within the week of taking calls informing me that they have to leave because their partner has "just found out." In fact now I will not train any new operators if they tell me that their partner doesn't know. Judgmental? Perhaps but it can get tiresome when all these fantastic operators have to leave because their partners have just been dropped a bombshell and they find out that their lovely wives and girlfriends are taking sex calls behind their back.
A partner will find out. Companies call their operators to see if they can log on (we do), they call to see how they are finding the calls and there are other ways of communication. Secondly and maybe more personally they may just want to know where your extra money is coming from!
From my standpoint I would always discuss this job with your partner. Explain that you are definitely not meeting the caller (heaven forbid) and that there are hundreds of ladies doing phone sex and that their partners seem to be fine with this. Explain that you can make extra money from home without any upfront costs and that the working time is flexible. You could also throw in that the only aspect the caller knows about you is the sound of your voice!
If your partner really doesn't like you becoming a phone sex operator then I would probably leave this career alone. You'll feel terrible for doing it and you will always be walking around on egg shells wondering if your partner can "hear" your calls. If your partner is fine with this type of work then I would definitely go for it. It's a great way to make money from home and well maybe your partner would even like to hear you take some of the calls! (Perhaps time to spice things up a bit!)
Please note my personal way of thinking is that a woman can do what ever she wants to do with or without her partners input or approval. However sometimes when your other half knows about the choices you make it can make things 100% easier for you and when this relates to a career choice it can give you breathing space to really focus on your new found job.
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