If you've ever experienced that heart thundering moment
of absolutely no connection within a psychic / tarot reading then you know
exactly how it feels to give that awful statement of, "sorry I am not
making a connection with you."
This is the pivotal moment when you double question your
skills and wonder if you've really got what it takes to do these wonderful readings.
Let me inform you now that if any reader tells you that they always make a
connection with every caller, then they are simply not telling you the truth.
No one human being can translate with every customer / caller that is sent in
their direction, it is impossible.
So this little post is to inform all of our amazing
psychic, medium and tarot readers not to give themselves a hard time if they
get one of those "blank moments." It is impossible to escape and you
wouldn't be human if you made a firm connection with every single caller.
Bad energy: If the customer is anxious, upset, angry or
agitated then this can affect their vibrational energy which in turn can make
it quite hard for you to read for them. Sometimes it can be difficult for a customer
to minimize their frustrations with the world. To help with this you can ask
them to spend a minute or two to really focus on the issue at hand and perhaps
some deep breathing may help also to calm their emotionally energy.
Customer in a hurry: Nothing is worse than giving a
reading to a customer in a hurry. It really is off putting and although the
customer doesn't realize it, it is probably placing an energy block within the
reading that is making it hard for you to pick up on his/her issues. If I
receive a customer like this I like to explain that good and accurate readings
need time and positive energy and of course I do this in a polite and courteous
manner.
Reader Focus: If you've had a
bad day, the kids were late for school, the council tax is late being paid or
you've just had an argument with your better half then you know that your
spiritual alignment will be slightly off. Stress can really interrupt our
reading and connection abilities and sometimes the best thing to do is not log
on, relax for an hour (even meditate) and then go back on line fresh as a
daisy. Stressed readers do not make good connections.
Emotionally Cold Customers: Some
customers do like to test us, they call me and say, "Hi I would like a
reading please." I ask for their name and their response is, "You
should know that." Unfortunately I am not God and thus I cannot just tell
him/her their name. Being Psychic is about seeing and feeling future and past
events. Being a Medium is about connecting to spirit and reading the tarot
cards is receiving guidance from the universe through the cards. None of these equate to guessing people's name, the lottery numbers or what they have just
had to eat!
Complex Customer Issues:
Sometimes a caller can have a really difficult and complex situation that is
hard to get to grips with. Within the reading the customer is stating around 10
different names and adding them into the equation and darting from story to
story. Sometimes with this type of complex reading you energy is just being
used up trying to grasp what the issue actually is. Sometimes the best way to
deal with this situation is to just offer psychic advice instead of a full
reading.
There are of course other
reasons why we cannot make a connection, sometimes we just cannot and there is
no further explanation as to why. However my main point is that even if you do
get two or three of these types of calls, do not let it affect your confidence
within your readings. Politely inform the customer as soon as you can that you
cannot make a connection. This way you are being ethical to the caller and to
yourself. With this said it is never too late to keep your spiritual abilities
finely tuned and if you feel that you are telling lots of customers that there
are no connections being made then you should really practice on family and
friends before you do this type of work in a professional sense.
If you do have a genuine spiritual
ability and would like to join our team of readers, please apply here and we
will contact you to arrange a telephone training session.
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