I learnt very early on how to deal with these adorable men and it turned out to be an easy formula that works time and time again. Unfortunately for us chat line operators we cannot gauge or predict who will be on the other end of the phone so we have to arm ourselves with formulas or ways that can make the call easier but also profitable for us, because that is why we are all here right?
Why do abusive callers ring?
Well it's either because they are deranged, they do not like females or they are drunk and for each reason we can apply the same amazing protection formula which should help us to seamlessly deal with these pesky types of callers.
How often do you receive abusive callers?
Not very often. In fact I wish they would call more because they make me laugh and the calls are normally very long in duration. I would say that you receive an abusive call around once every 2 months and some vary in their abusive degrees.
Do abusive callers affect you?
A resounding NO! You have to remember that these callers only know the sound of your voice. They do not know where you live, what you look like or even what your real name is! If you are being hurled abuse, who cares because he doesn't know the real you anyway!
Can I terminate an Abusive caller?
YES! If you feel that an abusive phone sex caller is making you feel uneasy then yes you can terminate the call and you probably will do this with your first few callers however I definitely would suggest that you try my tips because it will help you to make money from these types of callers.
Top 5 Abusive Phone Sex remarks and my answers:
1) He calls you a dirty slag: My answer: "Yes you are correct. In fact I'm the biggest slag you've probably ever spoken to and the people in my town know me as the local bike because I've slept with so many men. You are not telling me anything I do not know darling."
2) He tells you that God will never love you: My answer: "Unless you are Jesus which I doubt very much due to your aggressive manner, you and no one else can tell me if God loves me but thank you for your input."
3) I bet you are just a fat old hag: My answer: "Thank you for your observations. Since I was 18 I've been pilling on the pounds and I am now a mega size 24 and counting. I love my roles of fat and since you can see me so clearly over the telephone I hope that you appreciate them too!"
4) You are shit at Phone Sex: My answer: "I'm sorry that I cannot get your tiny 2 inch dick to work. Perhaps you need to lay off the drink and then maybe you might be able to perform with it. You may then be able to please a woman which is what you should be able to do but are clearly lacking with that skill."
5) I bet you are just a dole scrounging single mum: My answer: "Thank you for taking an interest in my finances and relationship status but I can assure you that unlike yourself I take my work very seriously and I haven't been claiming benefit all my life like your dear self. Have you tried the job center recently? I hear they want toilet cleaners perhaps you should try because I think that you would have the perfect credentials."
Please note there is nothing wrong with being a toilet cleaner in fact it is a job that needs to be done! However in the context of an abusive call it comes across beautifully.
Of course there are more than 5 ways that an abusive phone sex caller likes to portray his unsuspecting chat line operator target! The main way to combat any sort of abuse is either to cleverly use wit or to be just as abusive. I like to use wit because let's face it most abusive people cannot string a sentence together let alone understand wit and this leaves them in a state of confusion which prompts them to either end the call or extend the call!
Which ever type of caller you receive always make sure that the caller never sees your emotions. If he calls you a dirty slag and you start breaking down then his goal have been achieved. Always have the upper hand, lead the call and disregard what you sound like.
I am a big believer in always treating every caller with respect but of course there are some exceptions and these guys are the exception! I will say however that abusive sex line callers are quite infrequent and in any line of work you are going to experience some sort of behavior towards you that you will not favour or enjoy. The best way to deal with anyone disrespecting you is to shrug them off and forget about them because let's face it they must have something wrong with them to muster so much hatred energy just to be abusive! I'd rather make myself a cup of tea and start on a good book!
This post is not supposed to put you off becoming a Chat Line operator instead it is to show you that real life can happen on these types of services and that the best way to overcome them is really just to forget them and move on!
P.S. I would always try to squeeze every minute out of an abusive caller. His time is your revenue so try to get as many minutes on the phone as possible!
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