PSO Jobs - What types of calls will I receive?

When taking on a phone sex operator job or PSO job (PSO is just the shortened version!) you will probably have a million and one questions that you would like to ask. Of course all of our crucial information is located in our handbook, which can be found here; www.livelinesukjobs.co.uk/apply however there may be some further questions like, "What types of callers will I receive?" That require a more in depth response! First and foremost, all new operators are provided with telephone training before they start taking calls and this ensures that each new operator fully understands the regulations. We insist that all content on our phone sex services are legal and that any caller that tries to talk about illegal content is terminated from the service. The good news is that all of the callers know that the calls are recorded so the "nasty callers" as we like to call them, very rarely try to speak about illegal content on our service.

When applying to be a phone sex operator, I am sure your first thought will be, "What type of calls will I actually receive?" This is totally a normal question and one that I asked myself a hundred times before I actually applied. I am here to tell you about some of the types of calls that I have received over the years. You will probably receive a selection of these calls, if not all of them! Remember, we are always here if you would like to speak about any of the calls that you've had. We know that working from home with this type of job, does require communication with our team. Not only does this take away the loneliness of working from home, but also gives you reassurance that you are actually doing a wonderful job and that your hold time is fine.

The Quickie Wankers
Yes ladies, these can be the most frustrating  type of caller. The men that call us and they are already half way there, can really affect call hold times. Within a minute of just hearing your voice, makes them explode and then they put down the phone. Great, eh? Not really, these types of calls can be really frustrating and there is nothing that you can really do about them. Thankfully, most callers actually want to speak to you properly before progressing to some sexy action on the phone.

The Shy, Quiet Men
These type of callers are perfect. They are shy and yet so desperately want to speak to us. Phone Sex lines are normally their outlet, a way of speaking to real women on the phone. Be patient with these guys, treat them with lots of respect and gently try to dig around to see what it is that they actually want to talk about. The shy man, will usually become a loyal regular caller and will thoroughly enjoy their conversations with you.

The Very Horny Men
As you can tell from the title, these men are very horny and want to explore their fantasy with you. There may be some friendly chat at the beginning of the call but ultimately they want you to get down and dirty with them. They will normally spend quite some time on the actual sex chat and the call can end up quite long. These types of men like you to be adventurous, open minded and have some basic knowledge of all the normal fantasies like, anal, 69, doggy style etc..

The Fetish Lovers
I love these types of callers. They are so easy to keep on the phone and they also break the normal pattern of vanilla wankers. Fetish callers love to talk about golden showers, domination, submission, cock control and everything else in between. They may also have a love of dressing up in lingerie or female clothes. Take these callers in your stride, they can make you laugh and if you've had a really bad day then you can really take it out on them (if they like domination!) For more information regarding domination sex calls, please visit our other blog post: http://blog.livelinesukjobs.co.uk/2016/08/domination-phone-sex-for-chat-line.html

The Lonely Men
OK we have to be realistic here. There are lots of lonely men out there and not all of them call adult chat lines, however a lot do. I've spoken to widowed men, men who are too shy to speak to women face to face and even men who are married but feel intense loneliness within their marriage. Sometimes the call takes on an adult theme, however most of the time the callers just want to talk to you normally and let you know how their day has been. These calls are wonderful as you really do get a sense that you are making a difference to their life.

The Men that want to date you
Although these callers are not very frequent, there will be a few callers that will relentlessly call you and continually ask you to date them, to meet them and or want you to give them your phone number. After a while this can be quite annoying, but please remember they are still giving you minutes on the phone so you always have to be courteous. Due to the regulations, we are not allowed to meet any men or give them our personal details and this is what I say to every caller who asks.

Everyone Else
You will probably come across a lot of callers that do not fit into any category above and that is great because at least you are getting some diversity! Although phone sex is an adult service, mostly it is all about adult connection. Society is such that even speaking to your next door neighbour has become a strained and complex process! With this type of communicative isolation happening, is it any wonder that some men like to pick up the phone and speak to a willing lady? I think phone sex is excellent and every new caller is a challenge and an exciting way to earn money from home.

If you are ready to apply for your PSO job, we have spaces available for you! With great rates, a busy service and full support, you can be assured a successful start to your phone sex operator job. Apply here: www.livelinesukjobs.co.uk/apply 

How to Open a Phone Sex Call

You know what they say, the first 30 seconds of every "meeting" is exceptionally important. This is also true when it comes to opening your phone sex calls. In fact the first 30-60 seconds are so important that if you do not get it right, your calls will be very short indeed! When I first started taking sex calls at home, I was never taught this most valuable piece of information and on many calls, I started them incorrectly which did lead to some slightly embarrassingly short calls. So if you are a chat line operator working from home and you feel that you would like to improve on your call openings, why not take a peek below and see if these tips can help you with your phone sex calls.

The Right Environment 
If you answer your chat line calls and you have screaming kids, barking dogs or your other half shouting in the background, I can guarantee that the caller will hang up within 30 seconds. Do not take your calls when you have background noise, you may as well not log on! We hear it time and time again and if the background is not silent, your caller will hang up on you.

Your Voice
Even when you take adult chat calls at 3 am in the morning, you need to sound awake and alert. If you sound like you've just awoken from a slumber, or you sound dead tired, then your caller will not be impressed. He is calling to speak to you, wide awake and believe me, he does not care what time it is, This is what he expects and you had better deliver!

Attitude
This is so important. Obviously, sometimes we do not want to take calls but we have to because the rent is due next week. We get this, however if you answer the phone cranky with a bitchy attitude, not only are you going to get complaints but your call duration's will be terrible. Your sassy attitude has to remain out of your sex calls, unless of course your call is a domination one!

Effort
This one goes hand in hand with "Your Voice." and "Attitude." If I had the stamina to take chat line calls 24/7 I would. However we all need a break and if we do not get quality rest, our effort put into taking calls will dwindle. If the caller doesn't feel that you are putting in effort, he will disconnect the call.

My Opening Lines
I always vary my opening lines, because basically I get bored with what I am saying and I like to switch it up a bit. Also before I log on, I have a story planned. For example today, I went lingerie shopping with my best friend and I brought myself a black, lacy bra and knickers set. In fact I have them on as I am speaking to the caller - how wonderful! My opening line at the moment is, "Hello I'm Sarah, thank you for calling me. Would you like to know a bit about me?" Of course he always says yes and then I carry on the conversation, all about my amazing character who is so sweet, innocent, yet highly adventurous!

The Sex Chat
Ok, if we let the caller direct the call, you would be talking about his cock within 10 seconds. This must not happen if you want long calls. If you rush into the sex chat and ask him how he is feeling, he will always say that he is feeling horny. You need to have a planned story, a diversion, lots of things to talk about and then you can move onto the adult chat. Without this process in place, your calls are going to last 3-4 minutes maximum.

Experiment
If you take 30+ calls a day, you will HAVE TO change what you are saying otherwise it will become predictably boring to both you and the caller. This is where your effort really needs to come into play. You are selling your voice, your talent and character so make sure that each and every call counts. You are the actress and director, keep it that way!

I hope that you have found this blog about "how to open a phone sex call." Interesting. It is never too late to change what you are saying and put some kink into your calls. You can change every call that you take and really make some men feel happy, especially when you give them a quality phone sex service. If you would like to apply to become a Chatline operator, just click this link and we will make sure that you start earning money ASAP.

Phone Sex Psychology

One in three men call phone sex lines, this used to be the alarming yet sweetly beautiful statistic that used to float around the industry back in the "good old days." Please do not ask me who or how they came up with this profound statistic however even if the odds were stacked lower and it was 1 in 10 men that call, well we would certainly have a lot of men making good use of their phones within the UK!

My point of this post is that just from experience I know that a lot of men call from all types of backgrounds who are of all ages and who all desire one thing and that is to be completely entertained on their phone by a seductive chat line operator who is able to engage within their fantasy in a professional yet sexy manner.

When I first started taking phone sex calls I certainly did not think about Phone Sex Psychology. Just to get through one shift was a blessing for me, however one day I did start to think about the industry as a whole and I wanted to understand what exactly made men call us. Obviously the "obvious" reasons had been ticked off but surely there must have been reasons that I had not even concluded with yet. Also I wanted to know if they actually believed what I was telling them? My phone sex character was obviously a slimmed down (minus 1 stone) version of myself but my character also exuded nymphomaniac qualities which in my real life I am afraid are just absent.

I can gladly tell you that after 20 solid years of phone sex calls that I've finally nailed Phone Sex Psychology on the head and not only has it increased my call duration's but it has helped me with training all of the new chat line operators that join our team.

Below are my Phone Sex Psychology tips that I hope will help all new and existing Chat line Operators working from home.

He does it because he is Lonely
The big L word has many negative aspects surrounding it. No one wants to feel that they have been left on the heap and that society is not concerned with them anymore. When loneliness creeps in most people want to banish that feeling as soon as possible and what better way to do that than to pick up the phone and speak to a sexy lady on the other end. Time and time again I've spoken to men who have just divorced or have left a long term relationship and their first words uttered are that they are doing nothing and wanted some company.

He does it because of his Fantasy
OK so he loves cucumbers inserted into his rectum or he wants to be dressed in stockings and suspenders whilst whipped in front of a mirror. Or he even loves the thought of giving another man oral sex. All of these things are pretty hard to bring up with his wife or long term partner let alone his new fancy piece who he has only known for 3 months. This is where the anonymous chat line operator comes into play. Suzie will tell him how she will get a massive 3 inch (width!) cucumber and shove it where the sun doesn't shine over and over again. They will even discuss which supermarket they will purchase the intended weapon. Suzie is a good chat line operator and will never judge John and his anal cucumber fetish.

He does it because he is Drunk
Yes Friday and Saturday nights are full of tipsy men calling us Chat Line girls and telling us how wonderfully "manly" they really are and that even a 2 o'clock bird wouldn't do for him because he is so good in bed. Drunk / Tipsy men are excellent callers, the calls are long, they normally do all of the talking and they can be quite amusing.

He does it because he is Young
Young lads (18+) have a habit of having enormous sex drives. Testosterone is pumping through their veins and sweating our of their pores and yet they sometimes lack the confidence to actually pull a bird. These callers can be testing because they are normally over and done with in 3 minutes which leaves you high and dry so to speak (in minutes terms here!) Normally they grow out of it once they have secured a relationship but can return upon relationship breakup.

He does it because it is his Hobby
I love these callers because they are my bread and butter. They love sex lines and call daily. We give them a perfect service and they are satisfied until they want their next "phone fix" and no we are not exploiting them, if they can afford the service and want to call well there is no problem. Hobby callers tend to suffer from one of the 5 reasons above.

So as you can see Phone Sex Psychology is something quite complex and many callers move between all 5 reasons throughout the years. It takes time and calls to categorize each caller but if I'm honest when you start doing this it helps your call duration's and gives the caller a much better experience. My final tip is that as a chat line or phone sex operator you need patience and understanding about men and their behavior in order to be successful. Without these skills you will miss out on key information and thus your entertainment period will be short! So put your "I love men" head on whilst taking calls and give each and every caller the very best phone sex service they could ever receive.

If you would like to join our team of chat line operators you can apply here.

Top 5 Phone Sex Fantasies

I absolutely love discussing the phone sex fantasies that I have role played with callers over the years. Some of the fantasies are so out there that they are almost unbelievable however in a curious way they are all enthralling and keep us chat line operators on our toes! A phone sex fantasy is normally only explored if the kink is very extreme, the caller cannot tell anyone about it or the fantasy is taking a real hold on the callers life and he needs a desperate release which is where phone sex lines really come into play.

Below are my top 5 phone sex fantasies:

Lesbian Sex

OK we know that most men love the thought of interjecting their love juices into a lesbian sandwich. However they also like the idea of adding their wife / partner into the equation. Many a man has asked me to role play the idea of me sucking on his wife's love bud whilst he penetrates his rod into my backside. Whilst of course we both adore his almost caveman like efforts. Lesbian Phone Sex is a huge fantasy and I normally receive at least 10 calls a day for this type of fantasy.  

Domination / Sissy Submissive

Judges, policemen and solicitors are the main culprits of my domination phone sex calls. They are easily lead into a false power struggle with me as their mistress who orally abuses them. Normally they already have their instrument of choice (normally a cucumber for beginners) inserted deep in their arse well before the start of our call. As a mistress I'm pretty darn cruel yet their whimpering pleas do nothing to stop my impending torment. I adore domination and fetish calls because they are so varied and the calls tend to last quite a long time. For new chat line operators these types of calls seem quite daunting but after a while they really do become a pleasure to take.

 Outside Sex:

Yes boys we love nothing more than getting muddy hands as you do us doggy style in the woods! However as much as we plea for a bed, outside sex seems to awaken the wild instinct in a man and really does turn him on. They love it anywhere and everywhere, the kinkier the better. For example I've role played, graveyards, woods, car parks, industrial estates and of course football pitches (in their dreams!) The outside phone sex fantasy is really picking up speed and I am finding more and more men want to experience this “out there!” fantasy.  

Gay Sex

Some men like the idea of being "forced" to take a penis in their mouths but they definitely proclaim that they are not gay. In fact they are normally far from it with wives and girlfriends in tow. This is just their special phone sex fantasy. They love me telling them about how big bad Johnny is going to make him suck on that thing for hours whilst his hands are firmly tied behind his back. One step better is that he is forced to have anal sex against his will as his willing sweetheart wife looks on in total pleasure. This phone sex fantasy has lots of twists and turns and it is always good to get a clear picture of what the caller’s actual kink is.

Cross Dressing

This is a huge one ladies and one that we should take note of. Hoards of callers like wearing knickers, suspenders and bras whilst also getting off. It's their very special phone sex secret however they love to share it with us. I've had many callers phone me from department stores so that we can discuss their lingerie offerings. When Roy from Barnsley calls in his wife's black silk knickers at lunch time you know that he is ready to unload within 10 minutes but there are ways and means of extending the call. For example you can go into great detail regarding your huge stock pile of knickers and suspenders. You can mention when you like to wear them and what ones make you feel the sexiest. This type of fantasy is really good for you in terms of call durations if you explore it fully with the caller.

There are of course hundreds of different phone sex fantasies which chat line operators are presented with and each should be dissected to obtain the full effect for the caller. Very rarely are fantasies the same and if they are remotely similar then they normally have an added kink to it. A caller wants to get something different each time he calls a sex line. He may not be vanilla and that is why he is specifically calling so it's good to get your fantasy head on and really immerse yourself in his kink. If you are not too sure which angle he is coming from with regards to his fantasy then you can always ask and inform him that you want to get it just right for him because you think he sounds super sexy. Stroking a man’s ego is also another excellent way to excel your call durations.

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